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  Author:   "bubbi"
  Subject:   Re: is anybody's feelings ever validated?
  Body:   quote..."Does anybody else find that how they are acting must be due to
their mental illness
when you know its just how YOU are???"

     I have not told my family members my diagnosis  because of all sorts of
things, allot of  parts of my life are different.  I once expressed my
feelings (some crying, frustration)  now any time I get upset and frustrated
at the world, maybe express a little anger, I get the poopoo act like "oh
lets not upset her she might have a stroke or something."
    I also feel frustrated about people judging by the diagnosis. I have
always been careful about who I share what with and I have never been
disappointed someone I thought could handle it or trusted, never does.

  Please forgive me if I'm crossing a line, telling a 6 year old he wasn't
coming back doesn't seem to be anywhere near "normal"


<jmelee3@optonline.net> wrote in message
news:Wmuoi.40287$Um6.17491@newssvr12.news.prodigy.net...
> I am fed up.  My feelings are never validated from my husband.  God
> for bid if I get upset about something that any "normal" person would
> get upset about, he gets angry and thinks I am getting upset about it
> due to  my bipolar.  He left me and the kids on Saturday after a blow-
> out and even threatened me in front of the kids that he was going to
> take me to the hospital - meaning the mental ward.  I find this to be
> very unfair and very frustrating.  I feel he stigmatizes me since I
> suffer from bipolar II, mixed type.  This morning he called to talk to
> the kids and told our 6 year old son he wasn't returning!  This has
> gone way too far and I don't know what to do.  Does anybody else out
> there feel that there feelings are also never validated?  Does anybody
> else find that how they are acting must be due to their mental illness
> when you know its just how YOU are???
>
>
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  Topic:   is anybody's feelings ever validated?
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   *Message 1*     bubbi     Sat, 4 Aug 2007, 7:52 pm  
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